I wrote “You Can Be Imply” a couple of transient poisonous expertise I had with a manipulative and abusive L.A. mannequin fuckboy. Nevertheless transient, it had a life-long influence on my understanding of self. Main as much as that have, I had a historical past of placing myself in poisonous conditions and pining for validation from individuals who handled me poorly. I used to be caught in some delusion that I may assist abusive individuals by way of their trauma and train them to like me in the best way I deserved.
I wrote this music after I lastly realized that I may select to not enable dangerous conduct into my life, and that there’s a deep, deep significance in defending the physique and spirit. I ended caring about validation from assholes, stopped pondering it was my duty to assist them, and began caring for myself in an actual approach. As soon as I made that change in my psyche, I started to manifest really loving, protected, type, and communicative individuals into my life. Being liked in the best way I deserve begins with loving myself in the best way I deserve. Boundaries are so essential. The physique is a sacred and fragile factor and it deserves each ounce of care.